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What Is Love?

This is the age-old question….  What is true love?  Many of us believe we are in love when we start to miss a person when they are not around, perhaps we have an experience and think “I wish this person was here to share this.”  Maybe when we put their needs above our own i.e. you watch a movie of their choice rather than the one you have been desperately waiting to see.  Godly love surpasses what we, as man are capable of, yet as Christians it must be our goal.  We may believe that we are experiencing godly love when we feel we would lay down our life for another person, John 15:13  “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends”.  Yet, how many of us would lay down our lives for a stranger, or still yet, an enemy, Jesus did, Romans 5:8 “But God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Love forms the basis of the two most important commandments which are present in all four Gospels, Matthew 22:35-40, Mark 12:28-34, Luke 10:25-28 and John 13:34.

So, what does Godly love look like?

  • Godly love shows honour, Romans 12:10 “Be devoted to one another in love. Honour one another above yourselves.”  More than this it humbles us to the point that we care more for the one we love than we do our own selves.  We put the needs of others above the needs of ourselves, we will go hungry in order that another can be fed.   
  • Godly love is everything, 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.  If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing”.  1 Corinthians 13:13 “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love”.  Paul explains to us in these passages that love is everything, nothing compares with love, without love, one has nothing.  It is the essence of God and without this essence we are dead.   
  • Godly love involves action, 1 John 3:18 “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”  Love is not something that we merely say to each other but something visible, love is alive, love is action in our day to day lives.  
  • Godly love is familial, Hebrews 13:1-2 “Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters.”  Love is not casual.  It is not a complacent “Love Ya” that is so common on today’s society but the type of love that one has for his own flesh and blood, for we are all made in the image of God and within the church we are all brothers and sisters in Christ.  We are an eternal family. 
  • Godly love covers sin, 1 Peter 4:8 “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”  Proverbs 10:12 “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.”  We see this in our day to day lives, how often have our children misbehaved and treated us badly but we smile and forgive them because we love them.  We argue with our spouses then laugh it off because we love one another, were this an argument with a stranger we would surely not be so quick to forgive.
  • Godly love provides for others, 1 John 3:17 “If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?”  John is not just suggesting that we help each other out but insisting that if we do not do this and we do not have empathy for others that we do not have God within us at all!  Paul also calls us to help each other, Galatians 6:2, Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ.”
  • Godly love rejoices in the truth, 1 Corinthians 13:6 “Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  Lies have no place in Godly love.  Lies are not of God.  Whenever we lie, we lie to God Himself, Acts, 5:1-4 “Now a man named Ananias, together with his wife Sapphira, also sold a piece of property. With his wife’s full knowledge, he kept back part of the money for himself, but brought the rest and put it at the apostles’ feet. Then Peter said, “Ananias, how is it that Satan has so filled your heart that you have lied to the Holy Spirit and have kept for yourself some of the money you received for the land? Didn’t it belong to you before it was sold? And after it was sold, wasn’t the money at your disposal? What made you think of doing such a thing? You have not lied just to human beings but to God.”
  • Godly love is our goal and our aim as Christians, Paul, in praying for the Thessalonians, asks for an increase in love, 1 Thessalonians 3:12 “May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you.”
  • Godly love is part of the fruit of the spirit Galatians 5:22,23 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience,  kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,  self-control;  against such things there is no law.”  The fruit of the spirit is all goodness.  There is no law against these because in these there can be no evil.
  • Godly love is patient and kind, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”  Because we are so egocentric being patient can be exceedingly difficult for us, but we must strive for this virtue as this is part of Godly love.   
  • Godly love glorifies God, John 13:34-35 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are My disciples if you love one another.”  When we radiate love, we radiate Jesus.  Others can see Jesus in us.  If, while we claim to be Christians, we mistreat others, are self-centred, angry, etc etc. others will not see Jesus in a good light, they will not think that this is a God they want to follow.  However, when they see kindness in the face of hostility, love in the face of hate, forgiveness in the face of bitterness, then they see our God for who He is, our loving God.
  • Godly love even loves enemies, Lev 19:34 “The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.”  Matt 5:43-48, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your Heavenly Father is perfect.”  Romans 5:8, “But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us”.  We see in the Old Testament as well as the New this commandment to love one’s enemies.  This is important in order to separate God’s people from the rest of the nations.  When we think of the most evil people that we can imagine in history, these people still loved their families very much, therefore, it is having the capacity to love those who would harm you that shows the power and glory of God, our Father.  Jesus taught us this beautiful in the Parable of the Good Samaritan:-   

Luke 10:25-37  “On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”  He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and ‘Love your neighbour as yourself”.  “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”  But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbour?”  In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he travelled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’  “Which of these three do you think was a neighbour to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”  Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

  • Godly love is the Law and the Prophets, Matt 22:37-40 Jesus replied: “‘Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’  This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’  All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”.  Gal 5:14, “For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbour as yourself.”  Romans 13:8-10 “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.  The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbour as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbour. Therefore, love is the fulfilment of the law”.  When one is truly filled with Godly love, it is physically impossible to break the Law, if one has the love of God, one cannot steal from another, or murder, or blaspheme, the evil is not present because the love is too great!

God has demonstrated this love for us, 1 John 4:9 “This is how God showed his love among us: He sent His one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him.”  God bore the pain of parting with His Son for us, the very people, who turned away from God, who would rise up against Him…  God, our mighty Father humbled Himself, taking the form of man for us, for those who would blaspheme against Him. 

God, in His very being is love.  He does not just love as an emotion.  His very person is love itself.  1 John 4:8 “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”

We cannot be separated from this love, Romans 8:38-39 “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

I hope to come back to this again and cover this in more detail especially looking at 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 so please check back soon!

Meantime, please meditate on the many Bible verses I have shared with you, pray about them and let us all try and live them out more and more in our day to day lives for God’s Glory and the advancement of His Kingdom.

Love and Blessings

Louise x

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CHRISTIAN MUSIC

When you first become a believer, it can be hard to find good Christian music to listen to.  At first the only Christian Songs I knew were the old-fashioned hymns but now I have found loads of brilliant artists.  While, of course, there is nothing wrong with listening to secular music, Christian songs give us a chance to sing praise and worship God.  This may be while driving to work, cooking tea, doing the gardening, or cleaning the house! 

I have compiled a list of songs which I think suit every taste.  I have a very eclectic taste in music myself but I must admit not all these genres are to my taste, luckily, one is my husbands so he helped out with that one and the other I have just had a guess at which songs sound good!!

You will find these on the usual channels, Amazon, Google, Spotify, You Tube etc.

I really hope you find something that you like!

Happy Worshipping!

Love and Blessings

Louise x

Modern Worship Songs

City Alight

  • I Will Trust My Saviour Jesus
  • Ancient of Days
  • The Goodness of Jesus
  • Jesus Is Alive
  • God Is for Us
  • Yet Not I But Through Christ In Me
  • Blessed Assurance

UK Blessing – You Tube

Elevation Worship

  • The Blessing 

Mercy Me

  • I Can Only Imagine

I Am They

  • Scars
  • My Feet Are on The Rock

Hillsong Worship

  • What A Beautiful Name
  • Cornerstone
  • O Praise the Name
  • So Will I
  • Who You Say I Am

William Matthews

  • Deep Cries Out

Lincoln Brewster

  • Everlasting God

Rend Collective

  • Build Your Kingdom Here
  • My Lighthouse
  • Marching On (feat Hillsong Young & Free)

Chris Tomlin

  • Light of The World
  • Holy Is the Lord
  • Made to Worship

Lindsey Stirling feat Rivers Cuomo and Lecrae

  • Don’t Let This Feeling Fade

Beyoncé

  • Ava Maria

Rascal Flatts

  • God Bless the Broken Road

Keith and Kristyn Getty

  • There Is A Higher Throne

Bethel Music

  • It Is Well

Amy Grant

  • El Shaddai

Country

Elvis Presley

  • You’ll Never Walk Alone
  • He Is My Everything
  • Bosom of Abraham

Alan Jackson

  • There Is Power in The Blood
  • Are You Washed in The Blood?
  • Blessed Assurance
  • I’ll Fly Away

Carrie Underwood

  • How Great Thou Art

Johnny Cash

  • We You There When They Crucified My Lord

Randy Travis

  • Three Wooden Crosses – Randy Travis

Jerry Lambert

  • What A Day That Will Be

Dolly Parton

  • There Was Jesus

Kenny Rogers

  • Children, Go Where I Send You
  • Mary, Did You Know
  • In the Sweet By and By

Dennis Agajanian

  • Godly Man
  • Truth Is Truth
  • Seven Hillsides

Pop/Soft Rock

Newsboys

  • God’s Not Dead (Like A Lion)
  • We Believe
  • All the Way
  • Here We Stand
  • I Am Second
  • The King is Coming
  • Live with Abandon
  • Love Like I Mean It
  • Mighty to Save
  • More Than Enough
  • One Word
  • Pouring It Out for You
  • Restart
  • Revelation Song
  • Saviour of The World

Matt Redman

  • 10,000 Reasons

Ryan Stevenson

  • Eye of The Storm
  • The Gospel

Micah Tyler

  • Last

About A Mile

  • Taking Back
  • Born to Live

Hillsong Kids

  • I Give You My Hallelujah
  • This is Living
  • Voices of Freedom

Britt Nicole

  • The Lost Get Found
  • When She Cries
  • Walk on The Water

Rachael Lampa

  • Promise My Prayers
  • Lead Me (I’ll Follow)

Meredith Andrews

  • Open Up the Heavens
  • Spirit of The Living God (Radio Edit)
  • A Million Saints

Traditional Hymns

The Celebration Choir

  • A Safe Stronghold Our God Is Still

Anthem Lights

  • All Creatures of Our God and King

The Leeds Parish Church Choir

  • All Things Bright and Beautiful

The Royal Scots Dragoon Guards or Bonnie Anderson

  • Amazing Grace

Salisbury Cathedral Choir

  • I Danced in The Morning

Aled Jones and Russell Watson

  • In Christ Alone
  • The Lord Is My Shepherd

London Regency Choir

  • Jerusalem

Katherine Jenkins

  • The Lord Is My Shepherd

The St Michael Singers

  • When I Survey the Wondrous Cross

Keswick

  • The Power of The Cross (Instrumental)

Gospel

Etta James

  • I’ll Fly Away
  • Oh Happy Day
  • Amen, This Little Light of Mine

103rd Street Gospel Choir

  • Swing Low Sweet Chariot

The Gospel Choir

  • Shine Down

Louis Armstrong

  • Go Down Moses

Mahalia Jackson

  • I Will Move on Up A Little Higher
  • Joshua Fit the Battle of Jericho
  • Just A Little While to Stay Here
  • Let the Church Roll On
  • When the Saints Go Marching In

The London Community Gospel Choir

  • What A Friend We Have in Jesus

Gregory Porter

  • Revival
  • Liquid Spirit
  • Light at The End of The Tunnel
  • Go Tell It on The Mountain/Aint No Mountain High Enough (Medley)

Mary Mary

  • Shackles (Praise You )
  • Joy

Brother John Sellers

  • Wade in The Water
  • He Came All the Way Down

Metal

Argyll Park

  • Headscrew

Celldweller

  • Switchback

Seventh Angel

  • 1 of the Needle
  • Lament for The Weary

Demonhunter

  • Snap your finger, break your neck
  • I Will Fail You

Fight the Fury

  • My Demons

Love and Death

  • The Abandoning

P.O.D

  • Alive
  • Satellite

Tourniquet

  • Ark of Suffering
  • Psycho Surgery

Becoming the Archetype

  • Into Oblivion

Crucified

  • Pillars of Humanity

Gary Lenaire

  • Stop the Bleeding

Theocracy

  • Ghost Ship

Narnia

  • You Are the Air That I Breathe

Divinefire

  • Time for Salvation

Golden Resurrection

  • Identity in Christ

Rock

Bride

  • Everybody Knows My Name
  • Dust Going Through A Fan

Guardian

  • Sweet Mystery
  • Miracle Mile

Holy Soldier

  • Cry Out for Love
  • Hear No Evil, Speak No Evil

Ledger

  • Not Dead Yet

Leviticus

  • Over the Hills

Sacred Warrior

  • Sweet Memories
  • Blood River

Skillet

  • Feel Invincible
  • We Are Lions

Stryper

  • To Hell with The Devil
  • In God We Trust
  • Blood from Above

Ted Kirkpatrick

  • Gethsemane

Disturbed

  • Sound of Silence

Eraserhead

  • Entertaining Angels

Galactic Cowboys

  • Why Can’t You Believe in Me?
  • Space in your Face

X Sinner

  • Holy Ghost and Fire

Whitecross

  • Dancin In Heaven

Rap/Hip Hop

Kanye West

  • Every Hour (feat Sunday Service Choir)
  • Follow God
  • Everything We Need
  • Jesus Is Lord

Stormzy

  • Blinded by Your Grace

Lecrae

  • I’ll Find You
  • All I Need Is You
  • Tell the World
  • Always Knew
  • Divine Intervention
  • Blessings
  • Messengers

Faith Child

  • Our Father
  • Going Home
  • Unstoppable

B.B. Jay

  • His Love
  • One Way (The Real)

Guvna B

  • King of My Heart
  • Bittersweet
  • With Me All Along
  • These Are the Days
  • New Jerusalem
  • Pray for Me

Half Mile Home

  • Leave Me Alone
  • Do It Again
  • Blessing Me

Sherwin Gardner

  • Praise the King
  • Santo
  • Fall on Me
  • Praises Go Up

The Common Kings

  • No Other Love
  • Pray

Dance

Hillsong Young and Free

  • This is Living (fear Lecrae)
  • Let Go
  • Real Love
  • Wake
  • Love Won’t Let Me Down
  • Just Jesus
  • More of You

Capital Kings

  • Believer
  • Fireblazin

 Todd Edwards

  • Dancing for Heaven
  • Getting There from Here
  • Love Inside

Roman Kouder

  • Revival (Gregory Porter) Remix

Anita Wilson

  • Here’s to Life (Remix)
  • So, Gone (Remix)
  • I’ve Seen Him Work

Shuree

  • Undeniable feat Doug Weier (Manifesto Remix)
  • Where I Am
  • Come, O Come Emmanuel (feat Tall Animals)
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How Do I Pray – Part 2

In my last blog I introduced you to the acronym, ACTS:-

Let us look at this in a bit more detail.  At the end of each paragraph I have added some Bible verses which will help relate these passages to Scripture:-

Adoration – How does it make you feel when someone you care for tells you they love you and that you make their world a better place.  It makes you feel a glow in your heart doesn’t it!  Well God likes it too!  It is so important that we take time out to let God know we love him.  God designed man in order that he could fellowship amongst us.  God wants companionship.  God, in his very essence being love wants to see this love in others and this love returned to him.  Start with a simple “I love you God” and then tell him why “because you are always there for me”, “because you have taken my into your family”.  If you are going through a time of struggle and perhaps you are not able to feel love for anyone ask God to help you by pouring His love out to you.”  Deuteronomy 6:5, Psalm 99:5, 116:1, John 15:9, Romans 5:5, 1 Corinthians 8:3.

Confession – How do you feel when someone has done something wrong to you and will not acknowledge it or apologise?  You likely feel anger towards them.  Perhaps you want to cast them out from your friendship group or your marriage, family etc!  God, in his very being is goodness.  Goodness is not just a characteristic of God but his very being and, for that reason, he cannot look upon evil, he abhors evil and this is why it is so important to confess your sins to him.  Of course, he already knows what you have done wrong, even evils you are not even aware of! However, he wants you to acknowledge your sin, he wants you to confess it and ask for his forgiveness and only in this way can the relationship between you and God remain unimpeded.  Acts 3:19, Romans 10:9, 1 John 1:9

Thanksgiving – Imagine that you spend a whole afternoon traipsing around the shops looking for that perfect birthday gift for someone or over the course of a month you knit several beautiful baby outfits for a new mum and now imagine when you hand over the gift that you receive no acknowledgement whatsoever.  Although you have not given the gift in order to receive anything you are still likely to feel a little upset.  Jesus suffered the most horrific death for you!  Jesus hung for 3 hours on the cross, struggling for every breath, the pain would have been agonizing in his hands and feet, but nothing compared to the pain in his chest as the weight of his body bore down upon his organs before, eventually, his lungs could breathe no more and he did this for you! The night before his crucifixion, Jesus sweated blood (a medically understood phenomenon occurring when the body is under great stress).  He sweated blood from fear and anxiety as he cried to his Father to remove this fate from him.  Yet this fate was not taken from him and the next day he faced the dreaded cross for you! If you were the only sinner on this world, Jesus still would have faced this for you!  I think that is worth thanking him for regularly!  I have faced times of heartache and there have been times that I could not think of anything good in my life, my soul was in such torment, however, this is the time you need to get back to basics.  You lie down in a soft bed, thank God, you wake in the morning, thank God because he is giving you a new day and maybe today you will see the light at the end of the tunnel, you can lock your door and be safe inside your house, thank God, you have food to eat, thank God.  Once you get started you are sure to find many blessings to thank God for and this really helps your mental health as bit by bit you find reasons to be of cheer!  2 Corinthians 4:15, Ephesians 5:19-20, Colossians 3:17, James 1:2-4.

Supplication – What would happen if you had a friend that only contacted you to request something, sometimes money, often your time etc.  Do you think you would be in fellowship long with this friend?  Definitely not!  This is completely one sided.  In many ways so is our relationship with God, however, God’s grace far outweighs ours!  God does not ask anything from us but our acceptance of his son Jesus and his work on the cross and if God wishes us to have our requests then He will grant them to us.  Matthew 7:7-11, 21:22, Philippians 4:6, James 1:5.

To Be Continued ….

Meanwhile, have a look at the verses, pick a quiet spot and have a chat with your heavenly Father.

Love and Blessings

Louise x

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How Do I Pray?

It can feel strange at first when you start praying.  If you are like me the word itself can make you uncomfortable to begin with.  We can be so used to thinking negatively about prayer.  We may have heard comments such as “Like that is going to work!”, “Do they really think someone is listening” or “Look at the weirdo speaking to himself!”  Yet when man finds himself in a pit of despair and tragedy strikes who do they so often turn to, whether Christian or otherwise?  They turn to the one that deep down they know is the only answer to their problem, the one they have supressed in their lives believing they have the strength themselves to get through life but now they discover they are weak and they need the one who has infinite strength, Jesus.

You may have heard other people pray and it may sound complex or emotions may be displayed that are foreign to you.  Please do not let this dampen your spirit for prayer.  Prayer is different for everyone.  Put simply, prayer is a conversation, a chat between you and your saviour and you can speak to him as you would your father, your friends, or your spouse.  God has no expectations of you.  He just wants you to come to him.  He can see into your heart so before you utter a word, he already knows what you are going to say so think on this and just let your heart empty before him.  If you need help to pray, ask him, if you do not know what to pray, ask him.  A helpful acronym I have learnt to guide prayer is:-

Begin by finding a time where the house is quiet, and you can be alone and uninterrupted … if this is possible!  Then with eyes closed or open, hands open or closed in prayer position, lying down, standing up, in the shower, hanging out washing just begin to talk to God.  You can talk out loud or in your head, God will hear either way.  Imagine that Jesus is sitting with you.  He is looking into your eyes and he just wants you to accept him, he wants you to acknowledge what he did for you and love him for it, he wants you to recognise what gifts he has bestowed upon you, to confess your sins to him so that he can forgive you and help you to become more like him and he wants you to tell him your desires. 

As I write this, I am very conscious of the problems I have with prayer myself.  Suffering from a continually active mind which from time to time represents itself as anxiety I find it difficult to focus.  My husband gave me a great tip …  Pray little and often throughout the day!  Perhaps you are having a lovely walk with your dogs, just say a quick thank you to God for the blessing of these puppies and the health you have to be able to walk with them.  Perhaps you are doing gardening in the sun, tell God how wonderful a creator he is that he has created such beautiful flowers!  If you are stung by a bee and a less than desirable word flows from your mouth, confess your sin to God and ask for his healing hands to rest upon the sting and take the pain from you. 

Another confusing thing can be who to pray to!  I have heard many people pray to Jesus and I have heard people pray to God.  I have also heard people pray to the Spirit.  These are all perfectly acceptable as God is both one and all of these persons.  If you feel comfortable chatting to Jesus and imagine him sitting with you then pray to Jesus, if you have more of an idea of God on his heavenly throne then chat to him and if you want the Spirit to come into your life more abundantly then pray to him. 

I am beginning to realise that this is a huge topic, so I am going to unpack this further tomorrow but meantime, happy praying and enjoy your special time with your father.

Love and Blessings

Louise x